I know I’ve gone and on and on about this, but up until the last week of school last year, we weren’t planning to send Nick to prep this year. We thought since he was born on the cut off date that he would be too young, and that another year of kindy would do him the world of good.
THANKFULLY, I happened to have a catch up with two very wise friends who voiced their opinion that Nick should be going to school. Not only that, but he would be fine at the public school down the road. The next day, in a panic, I called the school and asked to meet with someone. One of their deputy principals met with Nick and I and said it was completely up to us. She said another year probably would make him a bit more mature, but on the other hand, if he didn’t fare so well this year in prep, he could always repeat it.
It wasn’t her words that convinced me he could or should go. It was his excitement about going. Isn’t that half the battle anyway? Getting the kids excited about school?
One of the benefits to going to the public school was that I knew four other families whose kids were going there, too. As luck would have it, two of them have ended up in Nick’s class and the other two are in the room next door. Not only that, but we thought we’d have to put Nick in before school care a couple of days a week, and friends of ours thought they might have to put their son in after school care two days a week. After talking, we decided to help each other out, so they take Nick two days and I pick their son up two days. This first week it has worked well, so hopefully that continues and will save both families some money, plus the kids love it.
I think Nick’s teacher is going to be great with the kids. She’s not overly available to the parents, but really, as long as she’s good with the kids, that’s all that matters right? And it won’t hurt for Nick to have a teacher that is a little bit tougher. Being an only child he is fairly used to getting his own way. He doesn’t have a brother or sister to have to share with, and while we try not to let him get away with too much, we sometimes are a bit softer on him because he’s the only one.
Someone asked me today if I’m regretting our decision to send him to school after all, and I said, “Not one bit!” I’m so thankful for my friends who voiced their opinion, for the classroom Gods for putting the kids we know all so close, for our friends and our mutually beneficial helping hand, and for Nick for being an absolute superstar these first couple of weeks at school. I’m also thankful for having Tuesday and Wednesday off work, giving me time to do things for myself, or around the house without having Nick under foot.
Linking up for the first time with Leigh from Six By The Bay for Thankful Thursday
So glad to hear that it is all working out well for you – YAY !!!! Have the best day !
Me
I’m glad it’s going well so far, too. Gosh it will be a long 13 years though. Can’t wait til school holidays already!
Our Miss 16 was one of those kids too, with a birthday near the cut off. We chose to send her too – as a result she will still be 16 when she graduates in November – for about 5 days!!!
I’ve done the calculations a couple of times and i’m pretty sure Nick will still be 17 1/2 when he graduates, which is a couple months older than I was, so I think he’ll be fine.
It’s so great isn’t it? I’m glad I didn’t worry too much because would have been a waste. You know my saying, don’t worry – it might not ever happy! Can’t wait to speak with him about it, and get M and him to discuss their schools. We got homework yesterday – let the fun begin 🙂
Homework!?What was it? We’re not supposed to get homework til 2nd term. I guess they give them a term to settle in. But he did bring home a “me bag” he had to put 5-6 items in it that described him. That was the 2nd day!
Fingers crossed A. I hope his first year is a good one for him.
Thankfully Master five hasn’t shown any signs of issues since he was moved last week. *phew* x
Im so glad its all working out well for you! So fantastic.
oh me too! believe me! thank you …
Wise friends are the best! My 3rd child is young for his year, but socially he was so ready to start school and he is doing really well, you have done the right thing! Thanks for linking up, hopefully see you next week xx
Thanks Leigh, yes very grateful for my friends who tell me what they think, not what they think I want to hear!
So glad it is all working out well for you. It’s such a relief as a mum. Mine are all finished school now but it never changes…if they are happy then I am happy!
I’m finding exactly that – there is always something to think or worry about – just different things and stages!
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I think you trust your gut on when to send them, and it usually pays off.
I’m so glad he is enjoying it. I’ll be a mess next year when Bailey starts full time